At this time, there aren't any numbers or stats to show the amount of end load a bat has, but certain manufacturer's are working towards a system that would allow for comparison of swing weight across most brands. A few 2018 end loaded hybrid bats would be this 2018 Louisville Slugger Select 718 BBCOR Baseball Bat: WTLBBS718B3, the 2018 Easton Beast X Hybrid BBCOR Baseball Bat: BB18BXH, and the 2018 DeMarini Voodoo Insane BBCOR Baseball Bat: WTDXVIC.
The 2018 Louisville Slugger Select 718 BBCOR Baseball Bat: WTLBBS718B3 wouldn't be any more or less durable than other two piece bats. The hybrid design just allows for a slightly end loaded swing weight and hot out of the wrapper performance with the alloy barrel.
Any size from 33", 33.5", or 34" would work for your size, it comes down mostly to personal preference.